Sunday, October 31, 2010

romantic proposals

Check out the list of smart and romantic proposal ideas
Check out the list of smart and romantic proposal ideas
The fragrance of romance and intimacy creates room for love and compassion, bringing out the longing to stay together for all eternity to come. Romantic proposal incision delves into the difficult psyche of love and romance and comes up with the most appropriate ideas of proposing marriage and engagement and to tempt you into spicing up your love life.
Check out the following list of smart and romantic proposal ideas to perfectly suit the requirements and understanding of new age love and romance.
1. Over the microphone on the plane
2. The beach! It can be the most romantic place to propose. Then after you've proposed you can have that intimate privacy. Better yet, do it in the late afternoon, when the sun is still warm and lovely and there is a beautiful sunset.
3. Invite her for a romantic movie at your place. Arrange the whole ambience to be replete with a romantic air. Arrange for a romantic dinner and wait for the instance when the movie reaches a romantic point. You can propose to her at the same time and slid the engagement ring down her finger. Another way to propose her is, on a glass of wine while you drop the ring in her wine glass and she will get it after she has finished it.
4. You can also take her to the place where you went for your first date. Talk to her about the old days and finally you can give her a card and a bouquet of roses and propose to her for marriage. The card should be carved from between so that the ring fits in perfectly, she will see the ring when she opens it and below the ring you can write the romantic poem.
5. If you want to surprise her in the very beginning of the day then you can send her a greetings card with a proposal poem in it and flowers bouquets from the local florist. To surprise her all the more send her a bag of cookies and make her open it with you.
6. One weird idea is to hide the diamond ring some where in her room and to send her for a mad treasure hunt. Give her clues so that finds the ring easily and then propose her with a bouquet of roses or with a box of chocolates. Hopefully she will say 'yes'. Or you can start playing a game of trivia, when your turn comes you just ask her if she will marry you or not.

Saturday, October 30, 2010

how can i tell if someone is lying to me?

Step 1
No body movement
Little or no body movement occurs when the pressure of the lie makes the liar worry about their body language, so some will stop moving all together. This also is reflected in eye contact, when they probably won't be able to look at you.
Step 2
Exaggerated body movement
Some liars do the opposite. They become actors and their actions and facial expressions get bigger to convince you they are telling the truth. They'll try to make more eye contact than usual.
Step 3
Stress gestures
Lying makes people stressed and this comes across in their body language with strange gestures such as scratching, itching and twitching. More frequent swallowing and faster blinking are also signs that they are being economical with the truth.
Step 4Eye contact
Eyes are a great giveaway. Therefore some people will look away at the point of the lie. Or people will replicate the innocence of childhood and widen their eyes whilst looking straight at you.
Step 5
Eye movementWe move our eyeballs to stimulate different parts of the brain. When the eyes roll upwards to the left, they are recording memories and probably being honest. But when their eyes roll up to the right, they are stimulating imagination, and are probably going to lie to you.
Step 6Nose touchingThis is a typical sign of lying. When we lie, our noses do get a little bigger and this is known as the Pinocchio Effect. It only has a tiny effect, but enough to make the nose itchy. Therefore when people keep scratching their nose, it could be a sign that they are lying.
Step 7Mouth or face covering
This is a childish bit of body language, but some still desire to cover their face, particularly when telling the part of the lie they are most worried about.

Friday, October 29, 2010

how can I tell if she is attracted to me?

Step 1
The first glanceThis is the most vital part of the process. If a woman likes you, expect her to hold eye contact for a few seconds longer than normal. If she finds you attractive, she will look away and then look back. If she then smiles, she probably fancies you.
Step 2Sub-conscious mirroringWhen she starts to slightly copy your body movements and pace through sub-conscious mirroring, it usually means there is a degree of empathy there.
Step 3
Change in postureMost women have a screen saver pose, but when she sees someone she fancies, she will arch her back slightly as it creates a better body shape, making her automatically more attractive to members of the opposite sex.
Step 4
Self-grooming gestures
These self checks will take place when she sees someone attractive. Therefore small, checking movements signal a degree of attraction.
Step 5Face softeningNormally women can look a bit angry or fed up without realising it. Yet when they see someone they fancy, their face softens and they look much more attractive. It is an animal signal of attraction, making her seem immediately more beautiful.
Step 6
TouchingShe will not just touch herself, but she'll touch you too in subtle ways whilst you are in conversation. This signals to other women that you are taken.

Thursday, October 28, 2010

how can I tell if he is attracted to me?

Step 1
The first glance
When your eyes meet, he should hold your eyes longer than the normal social space. He might look away, but then he'll look back quite quickly which shows that he is definitely interested.
Step 2
The suppressed smileWhen he sees someone he fancies, he can't help but smile, it's part of the attraction process. He will try and suppress that smile, which usually means he finds you very interesting.
Step 3
Ownership gestures
If he wants your time and attention, he will want to single you out and separate you from the rest of the room. So expect to see things like him standing in front of you so other people can't see you, or him resting an arm over the back of your chair.
Step 4Animal signals
An alpha male will puff his chest out to look stronger when trying to impress a mate, therefore he might realign his posture slightly and widen his shoulders a bit when talking to you, showing he can take care of you if necessary.
Step 5
Look at his eyes
He should look you straight in the eye when you are talking, showing his active listening signals. But his eyes will move down to your mouth and back up again, and this means he is probably thinking about kissing you.

Wednesday, October 27, 2010

turn your bedroom into a sanctuary of seduction

A step by step guide to transforming your bedroom into a romantic retreat. One for the romantics out there!
You Will Need
an attractive bedcover
colourful cushions
a selection of essential oils - ylang ylang, frankincense, jasmine, sandalwood, rose otto
an oil burner or bowl with water
candles and tea lights
long silk scarves
a long floor-standing mirror
sex toys, lubricant and condoms
music of your choice
Step 1Preparing the roomAfter you have put clean sheets on the bed, put your cover over it. Then arrange a few cushions on top.
Step 2Choosing essential oils
To scent the room while seducing your partner, use an oil burner. Put about 6 drops of your chosen oil in the water and light the burner. With strong oils like ylang ylang or rose, 3 drops should be enough.If you do not have an oil burner, improvise by putting the oil into a bowl of warm water next to a radiator or other heat source.
Step 3
Lighting the room with candles
Tea lights create a very subtle atmosphere and when placed in holders are safer than the naked flame. Never forget to check all candles are out before you sleep, and never place them near anything flammable.
Step 4
Accessorise, accessorise…
Long silk scarves serve several purposes. They can be used as blindfolds or ties in sex play, or tied around wardrobe and door handles for decoration.
Step 5
Positioning the mirror
A floor-standing mirror that can be moved around the room adds spice to both the atmosphere and to the play.
Step 6
Sex toys
Sex toys, lubricant and condoms should be kept within easy reach for when you want them.
Step 7MusicNow you have everything you need to create an oasis of pleasure in your home, one last thing you may want to add is music.And that's how to turn your bedroom into a sanctuary of seduction...the VideoJug way!

Tuesday, October 26, 2010

how to kiss someone passionately

Nervous about your first kiss? Let Videojug tells you how to kiss someone passionately. Kissing tips, hints, and advice on how to perfect that kiss for that special person in your life.
You Will Need
A pair of lips
Someone to kiss
Confidence
Step 1
PreparationCheck your breath. If you are intending to kiss someone for the first time then avoid strong foods like onion, garlic or strong flavours, unless of course your partner has been indulging in the same foods. If in doubt about your breath, suck a breath mint. But remember to have swallowed this before you start kissing, or your partner will be very surprised, particularly if they don't like mint.
Step 2Be confidentNothing ruins a kiss more than uncertainty. This confidence is essential, as hard as it is to get a kiss the first time, it will be harder to get one after a failed attempt. Once you have decide you are going to kiss someone, choose your moment and go for it.
Step 3The lips
It is best to start off simply. When it feels right, tilt your head slightly to one side to avoid clashing noses, lean in and press your lips onto your partner's lips, softly, so you don't bump teeth. If you do bump teeth accidentally, just carry on kissing. Vary the amount you open your mouth, and the rhythm of your kisses. You may wish to use the tip of your tongue.
Step 4Advanced techniquesThis style of kissing was not invented by the French, although they are probably quite good at it. It refers to the type of kiss where you insert your tongue deep into the other person's mouth and move it around. It is perhaps best defined by what you should not do. You should try to avoid swirling your tongue around aggressively like an electric eel caught in a fishing net, but equally you should not let your entire tongue go completely limp and floppy. If it feels right, you are probably doing it right. As the kiss progresses you may want to move to the neck. Kissing and nibbling the neck is perfectly acceptable when snogging and is the reason for the term necking.A love bite is a red mark left on the skin, usually the neck or shoulder, caused by excessive lip suction on the skin. It is, depending on your point of view, a charming memento of the kissing session or a repulsive and embarrassing bruise. It is best to discuss the giving or receiving of a love bite with your partner, before leaving one.
Step 5
What to do with the rest of your bodyThis is really up to you. There are many things you can do to heighten a kiss, you can hold or stroke your partner's back, run your fingers through their hair, or feel other parts of their body.Who knows where this might lead..... Well done, you are now kissing somebody passionately for the first time.....