Thursday, October 28, 2010

how can I tell if he is attracted to me?

Step 1
The first glance
When your eyes meet, he should hold your eyes longer than the normal social space. He might look away, but then he'll look back quite quickly which shows that he is definitely interested.
Step 2
The suppressed smileWhen he sees someone he fancies, he can't help but smile, it's part of the attraction process. He will try and suppress that smile, which usually means he finds you very interesting.
Step 3
Ownership gestures
If he wants your time and attention, he will want to single you out and separate you from the rest of the room. So expect to see things like him standing in front of you so other people can't see you, or him resting an arm over the back of your chair.
Step 4Animal signals
An alpha male will puff his chest out to look stronger when trying to impress a mate, therefore he might realign his posture slightly and widen his shoulders a bit when talking to you, showing he can take care of you if necessary.
Step 5
Look at his eyes
He should look you straight in the eye when you are talking, showing his active listening signals. But his eyes will move down to your mouth and back up again, and this means he is probably thinking about kissing you.

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